“Got a Minute?”: A Leader’s Guide to the Feedback Talk

You've thought about what you want to say. Then you sit down your mouth opens, and the words come out wrong. This post — the third and final in the Building an Honest Feedback Culture Series — walks physician leaders through the feedback conversation, step by step. Drawing on Crucial Conversations by Patterson, Grenny, McMillan, and Switzler, it covers four moves. You'll see how to Start with Heart, Master My Stories, Make It Safe, and STATE the Path. It shows how to share facts without putting the other person on the defensive. The post closes with the power of silence. It also covers what to do when feedback lands hard. And it shows how to handle the conversation when it's with a peer or someone above you.

